"Lets get one thing very clear-
there are no stupid questions about sex."

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Come check out my new store! It is loaded with tons of sexually related products for you to incorporate  into your bedroom. Here you can find my recommendations for books, toys, dvd's, etc. Hope you enjoy...

Saturday, December 27, 2008

More sex during holidays?

Oh yeah! 

Statistics show that Americans are having more sex during the holidays than any other time of the year. I'm guessing it probably has more to do with alcohol than anything else. What do you think?
Apparently, it spikes around New Years. The more time people have, the more they fool around. Research even shows there is a jump in births in September, nine months after all the Christmas and New Years madness. I guess I can understand why this is...I mean, if its winter and freezing outside, then more people are going to be inside trying to keep warm. What better way is there to do that then some good old-fasioned sex, huh?

Ah, the holidays... 

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Mistakes men make when having sex: #2

Locking on to her nipple like a suckling child

Yes, I know it's fun for you. However, to her it feel like she has a teething infant hanging off of her breast. Next time you are in one of your favorite areas, try licking and kissing around her whole breast before you go for the nipple, then flick your tongue gently across her nipple, and around the areolae. If she likes what you're doing, you'll know by her moans of pleasure. ;)

Have fun!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Quick tips on making your stuff taste better!

Ok, boys....we all know how much you love and desire blow jobs and, of course, prefer a swallower. However, have you ever tasted your own 'stuff'? Talk about EW! Here are some quick tips on making it taste better so your girl wont be so hesitant. ;)

1. Stay away from beer and caffeine...at least for the few days before your expecting her to go down on you. They are believed to heighten its bitterness.

2. Incorporate acidic fruits into your diet such as plums, blueberries, and cranberries. They make your semen more sweet and sugary.

3. Keep away from dairy products. Their high bacterial putrefaction levels can produce foul tastes. 

4. Last, but not least, if your girl [or guy in some cases] prefers heavier flavors, red meat and fish supposedly make for a buttery taste.

Have fun everyone! Let me know how it goes, or if you know of any tips and tricks yourself :) 

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Mistakes men make when having sex: #1

Being too rough when you touch her erogenous zones

Men like a firmer touch than women, especially when it comes to there penises. So if you touch her clitoris with as much force as you apply to your penis when you masturbate, she is most likely to flinch with pain and discomfort- then kick you out of bed. Remember what I mention in my first FUN FACT? The clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the penis, in a much smaller area. Treat is with respect. It's the only organ in the human body that has no function other than to provide pleasure. 

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

30 things women love that men just don't understand

Acorrding to The Frisky, these are the 30 things that women LOVE that men just don't understand! [they are in no particular order. at least i dont think they are....hmmm]

  1. drunk online shopping
  2. trapeze dresses [what are those even? - *note to self: google later*]
  3. having a good cry
  4. dark nail polish
  5. reality tv dating shows [never really got into these]
  6. brunch
  7. constantly changing one's Facebook status
  8. frozen yogurt [hell yeah!]
  9. gossiping- about people we know, don't know, or know through mags, TV, and movies
  10. cooing over adorable pictures of baby animals
  11. sexless cotton brief underwear
  12. the swiffer
  13. "Twilight" [not for me- haven't read it yet]
  14. music of Beyonce, Chris Brown, and Madonna
  15. musicals [oh yeah! grease, rent, mamma mia!...etc]
  16. short haircuts [actually my bf keeps begging me to cut my hair off but i love it long!]
  17. chuck bass [mother may i]
  18. shopping during a crisis
  19. multiple bed pillows [8 on mine]
  20. girly drinks
  21. $50 scented candles
  22. movies starrring and/or produced by Barrymore or Witherspoon [so very true]
  23. men who appear dirty and grimy, but are actually totally hot! 
  24. michael cera [no, not for me, sorry]
  25. miniatures
  26. astrology
  27. collecting magazines
  28. dancing
  29. jeans tucked into boots [bf actually thinks its hot- lucky me!]
  30. foreplay 
What do you think? Any others you'd like to add to the list? Comment below :)

Is sex addiction a real thing or is that just a bunch of people who really, really like sex?

Michael Douglas....Charlie Sheen....Billy Bob Thorton.....David Duchovny...

The list is long of celebrities in the media who are said to be sex addicts. It always raises eyebrows and leads to many questions- "What is sex addiction?," "Is sex addiction even for real?," etc., etc.

The answer is yes. Do you or someone you know think about sex all the time, gets as much sex as he/she can, watches a lot of porn, masturbates on a daily basis? Sounds like a regular all-American guy, doesn't it? So, how is a sex addict defined? Although most "normal" horny male guys share many of the same attributes as an addict, there are some important differences. 

As many as 16 million man and women are sex addicts. They share the same list of behaviors:
  • compulsive masturbation
  • use of pornography
  • chronic sexual affairs
  • exhibitionism
  • soliciting prostitution
  • anonymous sex 
  • voyeurism
Whats worse is the list of potential losses and damages as a result from an individuals sex addiction:

  • loss of partner or spouse
  • loss of career
  • unwanted pregnancies/abortions
  • suicidal thoughts
  • exposure to HIV/AID's and other STD's
  • even bankruptcy
Sexual addiction shares many of the same compulsive elements as other addictions such as drugs, alcohol, and gambling and can be every bit as destructive. As with any other addiction, treatment involves therapy, a great support system, and can possibly take a lifetime commitment to be successful.

If you or someone you know has a sexual addiction and you want some more information on it, visit the website Sex Help created by noted psycologist and author, Dr. Patrick Carnes. 

Monday, December 8, 2008

Cooking with Cum

Natural Harvest - A Collection of Semen Based Recipies

"Semen is not only nutritious, but it also has a wonderful texture and amazing cooking properties. Like fine wine and cheeses, the taste of semen is complex and dynamic. Semen is inexpensive to produce and is commonly available in many, if not most, homes and restaurants. Despite all of these positive qualities, semen remains neglected as a food. This book hopes to change that. Once you overcome any initial hesitation, you will be surprised to learn how wonderful semen is in the kitchen. Semen is an exciting ingredient that can give every dish you make an interesting twist. If you are a passionate cook and are not afraid to experiment with new ingredients - you will love this cook book!"

Wow. I think now I have seen it all. What is your opinion of using semen in recipies? Please leave a respone in a comment below. 

If someone goes down on me, do I have to return the favor?

Ah, the etiquette of oral sex. Lets be honest: despite the expression "Its better to give than recieve," most people prefer recieving to giving anyday! So, apart from the not-so-silent minority slurping themselves to heaven, most partners are faced with the postreception of fellatio or cunnilingus dilemma. Do I return the favor? In my opinion, if you are asking someone to do something to you, and you aren't willing to return the favor, is that really fair? The answer to this question should be obvious, so take a deep breath, close your eyes, and get down there! However, if someone if offering to going down on you all on their own, they shouldn't expect it in return if you arent comfortable. 

the top 10 striptease songs.

If you've ever performed a lap dance, you know just how important song choice is. The right music can instantly transform you into a sex kitten and provoke your body to move in ways you didn't know you were capable of! AskMen has created a list of the top 10 songs meant to do just that! 

  1. "Pony" — Ginuwine
  2. "Eyes Without a Face" — Billy Idol
  3. "I'm a Slave 4 U" — Britney Spears
  4. "Buttons" — Pussycat Dolls
  5. "Closer" — Nine Inch Nails
  6. "She's Always in My Hair" — D'Angelo
  7. "Sex (I'm a)" — Lovage
  8. "Hot in Herre" — Nelly
  9. "Justify My Love" — Madonna
  10. "Cream" — Prince

In the right hand column of this blog, you will find a playlist of 9 of the songs listed above [couldnt find one] so you can hear and judge them for yourself. 

Is there a song missing from the list that you think would be a great track for an even better striptease? If so, tell me in the comments below!

Fun fact #1

Though much smaller than the penis, the clitoris has twice the number of nerve endings, and in fact has a higher concentration of nerves than anywhere else on the body.

Boys- be jealous! ;)

Sunday, December 7, 2008

What exactly is a sex coach?

Ah, I get this question a lot. And I mean A LOT! Then, of course, it is usually followed by a question like "So, do you watch people have sex and tell them what to do?". NO, that is certainly not what a sex coach is or does. We dont have sex with our clients either.

A sex coach works with men, women, and couples. It is not like therapy. The people you work with are considered clients, not patients. As a sex coach, you are not there to tell them what they should or shouldn't be doing and giving them all the answers. 99% of the time, they already have the answers within themselves and, as a sex coach, you are guiding them and empowering them to discover what those answers are. 

Sex coaching is mainly for individuals or couples who are striving to overcome sexual challenges, difficulies, and problems in order to reach their full sexual potential. A sex coach uses a solid, independent, results-focused approach designed to help clients resolve their particular sexual concerns at their particular stage of life.

If you have any questions about sex coaching and what it is about - please feel free to ask!